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I completely agree that a single backlog for 'functional' and 'non-functional' requirements is key here. Also important is to have the budget-holder (or product owner) responsible for the operational effectiveness of the product. Several people have found this blog post I wrote useful: Let's Talk About Operational Features, not Non-Functional Requirements: blog.softwareoperability.com/2013/04/08/…